Money From Loss Coaching for the weight that comes from inheritance or legal settlement
Some money arrives tangled up with something you would give it all back to undo.
Others will handle the accounts and the paperwork. This is about the part none of
them are trained to hold.
Heavy Money is money whose benefit cannot be separated from the loss that
produced it — money you would hand back in an instant if handing it
back undid the loss. Money From Loss coaching helps you carry it.
The part no one else is handling.
Everyone around you sees a number and starts handing
you tasks. Sign here. Decide this. Meet with them. What no one tends to is the
weight underneath the tasks — the grief you did not schedule, the guilt, the
family who suddenly have opinions, the fear of making a choice you cannot take back,
and the strange heaviness of holding money you never wanted on these terms.
That weight does not belong on a balance sheet, and it will not be solved by one.
It is its own kind of work. Money From Loss coaching is built for exactly that
work — not the accounts, the weight.
What we work on.
A space to slow down and find your footing before and alongside the decisions
everyone is rushing you toward.
Naming the grief, guilt, pressure, and fear, so they stop running the show from underneath.
Telling the decisions that can wait from the ones that cannot, so you do not make an irreversible choice in the fog of the first months.
Handling family, friends, and everyone with an opinion or a claim, without losing yourself in it.
Deciding, on your own terms, what you want it to honor and what you refuse to let it become.
Walking into meetings with your own advisor, attorney, and accountant clear-headed and ready, instead of overwhelmed.
Who it's for.
Money From Loss coaching is for people holding money they never would have chosen to receive on these terms:
- A parent or spouse died and left you an inheritance.
- A wrongful-death settlement followed the loss of someone you love.
- A personal-injury or malpractice settlement now stands in for a life that changed in an instant.
- Money came wrapped in a divorce, a death, or a loss — and it does not feel like the gift everyone assumes it is.
Would you surrender the money if surrendering it undid the loss?
If this sounds like you, start here
About Robert Pagliarini.
Robert Pagliarini, Ph.D., has spent more than thirty years beside people in the days
and months after sudden, life-changing money — inheritances, settlements, and
losses that arrived with a check attached. He created Money From Loss coaching for
the part of that experience no one else was tending: the weight. He is the author of
Heavy Money and The Sudden Wealth Solution.
Enrollment
Sign up for Money From Loss coaching.
per quarter
One live group Money From Loss coaching session each quarter — a guided group
setting to work through the emotional and personal weight of money that came through a
loss, alongside others carrying the same thing.
How to sign up
To enroll, mail a check for $99, payable to
Robert Pagliarini, to:
PMB 130
Franklin, TN 37064
What Money From Loss Coaching is — and is not.
Money From Loss is coaching and education. It is not financial planning, investment
advice, tax advice, or legal advice, and it is not therapy or medical care. It does not
manage money or recommend what to do with it. Money From Loss coaching helps you carry
the emotional and personal weight of money that came through a loss, and prepare for the
decisions your own financial advisor, accountant, attorney, and mental-health
professionals are there to guide.
If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 in the
United States, or contact your local emergency services.